You
make love to your partner often enough and you've been doing it for awhile so you're pretty confident that you know what you're doing. But something is missing. Sex is just one of those things that you do together, like going out for dinner or watching a movie. And its OK. But its not great. Its a routine kind of thing. And while you tell yourself that's OK, a part of you knows that it could be so much more and that the
best sex of your life is something you're starting to think you'll never get to experience. What if she is secretly unhappy too but doesn't want to say anything because she doesn't want you to feel like its your fault?
So what can you do? While you can ask her what she likes and doesn't like, it may take awhile before she'll actually tell you. She hasn't already, right? The secret is to try new things, demonstrate that you want to learn new ways to please her and then gauge her reaction to each new thing you try. But you don't want to make a big deal out of it because that will put too much pressure on her, just quietly go about spicing things up.
What can you do? Here are a few tips to get you started:
Break Out Of Your Routine
If you've been together awhile then sex can get a bit same old, same old. When you have sex try different times of the day, different positions, unusual locations, new techniques.
Seek Out
Sex Help and Learn
There is that saying about how you don't know what you don't know and when it comes to
lovemaking we all think we are up with what to do. But its just not true. Of course, once your eyes have been opened to the possibilities and tips and tricks that are out and really aren't that difficult to master, you'll be amazed at what you thought you knew and how you really had no idea.
Don't Just Lie There!
You need to take charge and make sure her needs are met and you can't do that if you're flat out letting her do all the work. And besides you know you'll have an orgasm but you need to make sure she does and that requires effort. Before you start thinking that is unfair and asking why should you have to do all the work just remember that if she has a great time you'll have a really great time! When you do come, your orgasm will be more intense for having watched and helped her come.
Romance is Important
For guys sex is physical but its not like that for women. Sure it is physical but its in the mind where most of the action starts and ends. For a woman there is no greater turn on than being desired and adored. Demonstrate how much you care about her outside of the time you make love and you'll be amazed at the dividends that will yield. She will not only want to have sex more often but she'll be more enthusiastic about making love too.
Being committed to improving your
lovemaking and your partner's sexual experiences is going to set you on an amazing journey that will bring you closer together and guarantee you the
best sex of your life. Are you ready?
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